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友谊没有任何偏见 Friendship（第1页）

友谊没有任何偏见Friendship

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Small-mindedadministratorsandauthuresliketospeakincliches.AllmylifeIheardthesametriteline，“Youtellalotaboutapersonbythefrieheblacksheepofthehram，Ihungoutwiththeso-called“lmyfreshmaadayweeailymemberdidnotderidemyclosestfriendsabyhangingoutwith“badseeds”

Iwouldfallintoadoiral，ecollege，andhaveamiserablelife.Theythoughtthattheyhadmefiguredout.

Oneday，whilemynieacher，Mr.Pedersen，wasreviewihceptswithme，myfriendMariamranbythe，stuckherheadinthedoorway，calledout，“HiYassee，”

andthenranaedersemedsaidwithascowl，“HowyoucallyourselfanHo?Arealhodoesn’tassociatewithpeoplelikethat!”

Iwaoaskhimhowhecouldcallhimselfateacher;afterall，arealteacherissupposedtowanttohelpeveryosilent，stunnedbyhisignorandcruelty.HewaodropmychildhoodfriendssimplybecausetheydidhesameimportanschoolworkthatIdo.Ifhehadthoughtbeforespeaking，hewouldhaverealizedthatpeoplelikehim，ratherthanpeoplelikemyfrieerabletoodstudentsintopooronesbydisgthemwithridients.IwhtMariam.Oneofmyclosestfriendsinfreshmanyear，shewasalsoabele，noudent.Masinmylife，especiallymyparentsandteachers，wouldlookatthoseariam，Alisa，Zena，Lianne，andMarvin，andaskhowIcouldcallthese“low-lifelosers”

myfriends.Butsuchquestionsshowaladerstandiureoffriendship.

Friendshipisunalanduncritical，basedonlyonmutualrespedtheabilitytoeher’spayfigureshewayoneofusethingeous，aofuswouldjokeaboutitfordays.Wecouldhavefundoingabsolutelynothingatall—becausethepanyweprovidedeachotherwithwasenough.Ratherthandisgoperas，Lewinsky，ortheweather，weehangingarouherwithoutaryingtooutsmarttheothers.Still，Irealizethattheseadultshadapointtobeedaboutthedireyfriendswereheading;Ialsowasedforthem，butIwasn’tabouttoleavethem.ManytimesIwouldadvisemyfriendsthatsomeactivitymaybedaothinkthingsthrsomething，butIwouldoholdthemroundandtodtothem.WhenMarvinwouldbeginrollingjoints，whenAlisawouldtellmesheskippedschoolbecauseofahangover，orwhenMariamwouldtellmethathernewboyfriendwasigang，Iexpressedmydisfortwiththeiras.However，Ineverblackmailedthemwiththethreatoftakingmyfriendshipaway.trarytotheertelevision，youhavefriendswhs.Infact，probablyeveryorealizingit.

Inmyjunioryear，APU.S.Historyclass，theteacher，Mr.Ja，addressedtheclasssayinoneofyouhaveeverseenadrugdeal!”

Withalookofabsolutetyandanoddsmileonhisfaheroom.“I’veseenadrugdealbefore，”

Ianswered.Everyourolookatme，eithergaspingorindisbelief.Irealizedthatmaybemyexperiehusfariyhofrieeexperieillmaintainedmanyfriendswhowereextstudents.Yogita，Nitin，Hans，Vishal，Saurabh，Anuj，NidIhavehadalmosteveryclasstogethersihgrade.NitinandIbothlovetoshopaisdifferentaboutshoppingwithNitihatweargueabouttheyofahighsalestaxordiscusstheeffeessoftheagwelfaresystem.YogitaandIalwaysgotetherand“pullallherhouse.WhileIdoenjoyaplishingmyacademidwwiththishighlymotivatedgroupoffriends，Ialsoenjoy“thelosers，”

whotomeseemmuchmoresindloyal.

&，Iwouldhgradeexperience，becauseIlearnedmaantlessonsfrommyfriendsandtheigeadadministrators.It’ssadtosay，butinmanyofmyfrieions，IsawwhatIedtobee.Iure，I’dliketouehelpis，inadditiontomystudies.Ihavebeenfortuhusfarinbeioreathrramslike.G.E.Formyefforts，Ihavebeenreizedandwashooreceivethe1998OperatiohAwardformydeditohelpingotherkidsliveasubstayle.Myfamiliaritywithteenagersfromallwalksoflifegreatlyenhancesmyabilitytobothidentifywithahers.IwillbeasuccessfuladultiurebecauseIamwillingtoworkwitheveryoogiveeveryoneace.Hopefully，Iwillalsohavethegeotherkids’livesforthebetter.

目光短浅的领导及权威人士讲话常用些陈词滥调。

我总能听到同一句陈腐的教条，即“物以类聚，人以群分”

。

我算是优等生中的异类，总是与那些被称为“后进生”

的人混在一起。

一年级时，老师和家人每天都嘲笑我的朋友，他们警告我，如果我继续与这些“坏家伙”

搅在一起，就会堕落，大学永远毕不了业，生活会非常悲惨。

他们以为这是在教导我明辨是非。

一天，我正跟九年级的数学老师彼得森先生复习一些数学概念，我的好朋友玛丽安从教室旁跑过去，伸出头喊道：“嘿，亚斯！”

然后跑开了。

彼得森先生冷冷地看着我，皱着眉头说：“你怎么能算优等生呢？真正的优等生不会跟这种人有瓜葛！”

我真想问他，怎么称得上是一个老师？毕竟，一个真正的老师会帮助每一个人。

但是，我沉默了，静静地坐着，为他的无知和残忍惊颤不已。

他希望我远离儿时的伙伴，只因他们不像我一样把学业看得很重要。

如果他说话前经过一番考虑，就会意识到，更容易让一个好学生变为差生的，是像他这种带着偏见打击他们的人，而不是像我朋友这样的人。

我永远都不会轻视玛丽安。

她是我一年级的一个好朋友，尽管她成绩偏下，与大学无缘。